Anatomy of a Scene

This is just one person's interpretation, but perhaps you might find it helpful.

1. Opening Ritual

• Clearly identifiable beginning
  
• Putting the submissive in a submissive mindset
  

2. Anticipation and Build-up

• Change of Demeanor and Voice
  
• Describe or hint at plans - build anticipation
  
• Setting the stage - music and lighting
  

3. The Scene

• Bondage - vulnerability
  
• Disrobing - vulnerability
  
• Pain and Pleasure
  
• Possible Role-playing
  
• Verbal Interraction (Commands)
  
• Humiliation
  
• Element of surprise
  

4. The Ending

• Praise and appreciation
  
• Close time
  

5. The Debrief

• The day after
  
• A week later
  

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