More about me...
The following is something i created to save time when negotiating with Dominants.
If You find it interesting, please email me.
Basics: i am a 56 year old slave in Aurora, Colorado. i write erotica for fun and enjoy people who enjoy life.
Hard Limits with a new playmate: Bestiality, Birching, Breaking of the skin, Branding, Brown Showers, Canes, Catheterizing, most Dehumanization, Dilation, Electricity (although the pulse massagers are nice), Enemas, Face Slapping, Infantilism, Religious scenes, and Soap in Mouth.
After i establish a bond of trust with a Dominant, many of my hard limits disappear if they are preferences of His. What remains? So far, the answer is "ask"... (animals, scat, kids). *grin*
Physical Limitations: My only known alergy is baby oil. i dislocated my right shoulder in a car accident once, and this eliminates the possibility of full suspension for me. i especially like my arms tied or cuffed behind my back. Blindfolds put me in subspace faster than anything, but i have had little experience with gags. i have TMJ and know that i could not tolerate a ball gag... and a bit gag gets uncomfortable after a frustratingly short period of time. i have been trained to maintain silence upon command.
i'll use safewords for resistance play, but the rest of the time, i believe that the scene should be up to the Dominant, that parameters should be discussed beforehand, and that if you don't trust the person you are playing with, you shouldn't be playing. i tend to be very non-verbal during a scene but give fairly easy to read physical signs, i am told. i do not dis-associate during a scene.
i am not a masochist. i experience endorphins and can enjoy some pain play when properly prepared. i do get very turned on by spankings, especially if i am in a helpless position (OTK is a favorite). my favorite toys (after the bare hand) are leather straps, wooden paddles and one exceptional Australian leather whip that i couldn't resist purchasing for my toy bag. i enjoy erotic pain, primarily genitorture. The single most important element to a scene is my helplessness (being bound physically or by command) and the absolute control by the Dominant. i have no problems with any names (bitch, slut, slave, etc.) and am comfortable addressing my Dominant as He desires. Humiliation is a turn-on, as is public embarrassment, so long as neither is dehumanizing or degrading to the self-esteem. i am somewhat of an exhibitionist, so long as the audience is scene friendly and not a non-consensual victim.
i love ritual and am familiar with Old Guard protocol. i am open to experimentation... so if there is something that You feel strongly about, please at least mention it so we can discuss the possibilities.
If You would like to see my service resume, click here.